Dealing with Difficult Emotions: What are denial and repression defences and how do I spot them?
When we are faced with a challenging emotion, it is understandably common to
In 2018, it was estimated that 5.4% of the global population experienced addictions to illegal drugs.
In Denmark, 15.4% of adults between 16 and 34 have used drugs. 66% of this group use cannabis, and 16% take cocaine. Source; European Monitoring Centre for Drugs and Drug Addiction, 2019
While this data is important, it’s also crucial to remain aware that addiction can be about much more than drug use, which we will explore together now.
Addiction is a complex, multifaceted state of being that affects every affected person in a unique way
Mark Colclough, MA
Addiction is a complex, multifaceted state of being that affects every affected person in a unique way. If you think you might be an addict, but don’t fall into the addiction stereotypes, it’s still worth us exploring this together.
More often than not, we correlate addiction with illegal substance misuse or alcoholism. But in reality, you can become addicted to anything – including behaviours and people – and any addiction can be detrimental to your wellbeing and that of those around you.
Some of the most common and easily-spotted addictions are:
The power of addiction cannot be overstated. People who live with chronic addiction problems can lose their homes, children, family, friends, jobs – and often their lives – due to their addiction. But beyond that, addiction is all-consuming. It can become more than just a crutch for self-regulation and develop into your sole reason for living. If you are worried about a spiralling addiction, it’s important to seek help as soon as you can to prevent the consequences from worsening.
Often, it is those around us that spot the addiction before we do. Sometimes this is because the very nature of our problem makes it impossible to see it objectively (not seeing the wood for the trees, so to speak). Combined with this is a sense of denial – which is, effectively, your mind telling you that there is no problem, so that you can continue to feed your addiction. Here are some signs that you might be experiencing an addiction problem:
You can learn about the interrelation between your emotions and your addiction and begin the process of healing in a holistic way.
Mark Colclough, MA
These emotions are truly challenging. But with the right help, you can learn about the interrelation between your emotions and your addiction and begin the process of healing in a holistic way.
Before getting effective help with an addiction, it is important to acknowledge its presence. You might find you have already reached this realisation, or you can do this with the help of therapy. Once you have acknowledged your problem, recovery is possible.
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